which one?

Should I pick looks and personality or cute and security. Should I pick the one that chooses brown or black? the 15 or 16 years old? The one that treats me like greatness or the one that treats me like a best friend? The one that I feel secure around or the one I can talk to about anything? The one that likes Soccer & football or Soccer and Basketball. The one that likes me when I wake up in the morning looking crappy and he doesn't care or the one that wants me to look my best all the time?